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Single & Fabulous


Being single and feeling fabulous at the age of 40s is a wonderful state of being, and embracing and enjoying that is essential. It's perfectly okay to want a man in your life, but it's equally important to be selective and choose someone who aligns with your values, desires, and goals. It's about finding a partner who enhances your life rather than making you feel like you need them.


A man who is emotionally mature, independent, and self-assured. He is someone who can support and uplift a woman but also challenge her and inspire her personal growth. A more muscular man can handle his responsibilities and care for himself without relying on her to do everything for him.


In my perspective, a stronger man respects a woman's independence and individuality and doesn't try to control or dominate her. He should support her goals and ambitions and be willing to work together as a team to build a strong partnership.


Having a man in a woman's life is not about needing someone to take care of her or fulfill societal expectations. It's about finding a genuine connection and companionship with someone who adds value to her life and makes it even better. He should love her DNA, culture, and maybe the loudness and arguments should sound like music to his ear ( ideally) and come back when she says go away with a hug from behind. A woman wants a man who can bring out the best in her and vice versa.


Remarkably, being single and fabulous does not reflect your worth or desirability. It's a personal choice and a celebration of your independence and self-love. If and when the right person comes along, they should complement your fabulousness and enhance your life in meaningful ways.


Otherwise, no woman should be interested...

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